First, an update:
Thanks to everyone for your supportive comments about last week’s “Mean Girls” post. I decided that it would be appropriate to talk to the woman about 1) the fact that she did touch my child and 2) that her comments were hurtful to my daughter. This woman was already told that she was being insensitive and a poor example to her children, and it didn’t faze her. I felt it would be a waste of my time to discuss that with her again. I did, however, want to talk to her about how her words and actions hurt my child specifically.
Unfortunately, I never got the chance to do so. This parent, and her children, have apparently stopped coming to the studio (at least for now). What I heard from other parents was that the woman was ruffling many feathers with parents and the teachers. The mom started making demands that weren’t sitting well with anyone. After the director of the school was unwilling to bend to her will, the woman decided to bolt. So in the spirit of letting go, I’m doing just that.
I’ve got bigger fish to fry.
My daughter is approaching puberty, and I am in a panic! Aside from the physical changes that accompany this stage in her life, I’m noticing emotional changes. Zoe is starting to notice boys, and she’s asking questions about how her body and attitudes are changing.
Zoe can pretty much ask me anything; and I am trying to keep my responses to her questions appropriate based on her age and what I think she can understand. I don’t want to overwhelm her with too much information, but I don’t want her learning about sexual development from other kids (we all know how well THAT can go over). So I’m scared and need help!
Can anyone give me some suggestions? Are there any books out there to help parents talk to daughters about sex? Experienced parents, I’m looking to you for your wisdom!