When I was young and naive, I had visions of how my life and home would look when I get married. I would have a wonderful husband, four beautiful children and a home that’s both lovely and inviting. This wonderful and handsome man I married would earn more than enough, not only to provide for…
Category Archives: Day In And Day Out
Bumper Stickers
Wednesday, I was driving my daughter to swim team practice. At a stop light, I looked up and the car in front of me had about 37 bumper stickers on the back of it. (I am not a fan of bumper stickers. I think it has something to do with the fact that I once…
All I Want For Christmas
Despite my usual annoyingly cheerful disposition, I’m feeling a little Scrooge-like this year. Bah Humbug. See, this year, Ian will be eight. Every year that passes is another slap in the face, another year that he gets further and further from his milestones. Another year he grows slightly taller and people will no longer mistake…
I Can’t Believe I Said It!
I said it. I can’t believe I said it! The mother of all no-no’s and I used THAT word! I didn’t just use it in a more innocent way when it is directed at an object or situation, but to actually describe another individual. The word hadn’t even completely escaped my mouth when I realized…
bringing healing
**This post is from my blog, Thoughts from Holland. With our current adoption picking up speed, I went back and re-read posts from the days after we brought my two year old home. I worry about Will with each change we make in our family, whether it is adding a child or simply changing the…
I’m So Tired
I spent all week thinking about this post. And I have nothing. I’m too tired to think. This time of year I’m just spent. Physically and emotionally done. Thanksgiving. Hanukkah. Christmas. All take emotional tolls on me because I’m not just planning a fun holiday celebration, but also organizing how we’ll get through the celebrations….
Special Exposure Wednesday.
This is how we spent our day yesterday. Filming for a documentary segment about immune deficiency and the importance of blood donation. It was a big day and Ivy was exhausted by the end of it. Got something to share? Why don’t you join in this Special Exposure Wednesday. Please remember your comment love at each…
The Nail That Sticks Out is Hammered Down
Advocacy is among the most important things a parent of a special needs child can do. Where should we advocate? How can we be more effective? And why does it seem like we battle endlessly against “the system”? Here are some thoughts based on 20 years of personal experience.
Home Is Where The Jello Is
The two sides of J seem to be school J and home J. In school, J has one-on-one attention…well, mostly, but that’s another story. He has a strict schedule he follows, every minute of the day essentially accounted for. Though there’s a definitive concern for his growth and successes in academic and daily living goals,…
What Tune Do You Live By?
One of the greatest things about people is the ability to be creative. Except when it’s a four year old creatively pretending to play a CD she made (out of cardboard). In your minivan’s CD player. Yep. Since then, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking of the music I’m not listening to. The favorites…